Kel Tec PF9 with pocket clip. 7+1
very concealable....my Uncle Mikes inside pocket holster
For compact (no pinky dangle) the Kahr CW9. Very light. Very small. Very reliable.
For subcompact the brand new Kahr CM9 - like their PM9 series but with less fancy cosmetic stuff and a lot less expensive too. Great for a wife's purse or a BUG. 3" barrel. As soon as that is put on the MD handgun roster I'm getting one.
A shop in Towson rents the MK9 on their range, and I want to give it a go. Something about the all-metal gun also drew my attention.
I figured out what it was for me: even though all-stainless, it is still ultra-compact. As a result, it weighs closer the gun that I normally shoot. Hand/eye, training and muscle memory all kick in to say "this is what you already know".
Same reason I use the same kind of sights on every pistol. It's training.
Another gun I want to try: Sig P380 HD. It is the heaviest of the P380 line (all steel) and just felt right.
Try A Kahr pm9 I've heard their pretty compact Nd concealable w/No Problem.